You will be the provider
What do Japanese women want in a man?
Traditionally, in Japan, the man and the woman play two very different roles, both important to the well-being of the family.
In the Japanese mind, it does seem natural that women should stay home and take care of the family.
It appears to the eyes of many westerners that the Japanese housewife is submitted, forced to stay home and to take care of the house and children. Nothing can be further from the truth.
Surprisingly, most Japanese women want to be housewives, they are proud of their role, of what their mother taught them, and they will pass it on if they have one daughter.
In Japan, the husband is expected to be the breadwinner for the family, get ready for that. On the other side, the Japanese woman is expected to take care of all domestic chores together with looking after the kids.
Japanese women want their man to be a good husband, that will be in the future a good father for their kids and a good "breadwinner". They want a man they can rely on, who works hard to support the family, to provide financial support for the spouse, children, parents, and other dependents.
As a breadwinner, you are going to play a critical function in your household. Husband’s responsibility is, first and foremost, to meet the needs of his spouse & kids. This is a huge responsibility, again, be ready for this.