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A confident man

What do Japanese women want in a man?


While confidence isn't an exclusive component for a successful date, it is a very important one - you need to be confident to date Japanese women successfully.

Unlike many American or European woman that are mostly attracted to the size of your biceps or wallet, Japanese women are attracted to your character.

For them, a confident man is an attractive one, in fact, confidence is one of the first quality that Japanese women look for in a man.

In the Japanese society, it is believed that confidence equals happiness, and happiness equals success.

A confident man is one who carries himself in a self-assuredness manner - most definitely not arrogance. It is a state of mind where a man feels sure of himself and his abilities and knows what he is about. He knows himself for what he can do, what he may be able to do, what he may fail at but does not fear to try.

A confident male is perceived as being able to give a woman security and protection and thus is a very manly attribute which women loves.

For your Japanese date or girlfriend, a confident man is in control of his destiny, his future, his career, his day. Confidence is first and foremost about self-respect and self-understanding, and Japanese women know that, and they find confidence is sexy.

One of the ways you can show your woman your confidence is to stick to your beliefs and core values.

Confidence is KING.